Becoming a Stay-at-Home Mom

Some new moms find that the birth of their babies has changed their priorities so much that they do not wish to return to their previous place of work. Moms over 35 may contemplate leaving careers they have built for many years and need to evaluate carefully the consequences of this life-changing decision. Here are some points to consider.

Financial aspects
- Is living on one income at all feasible?
- Who would be in charge of financial decisions?
- Would you have access to your partner’s income?
- How secure is your partner’s income?
- Can you return to work if necessary?
- Will you have health insurance?
- How will this affect your retirement account?

Relationship aspects
- Do you trust making yourself financially dependent on your partner?
- How is this change likely to affect the balance of power in your relationship?
- Does your partner admire full-time homemaking and motherhood?

Social aspects
- Would you miss the interaction with other adults at work?
- Will your friends and family support you in your decision?
- Is there anyone else at home during the day near you?

Career aspects
- Will you miss your work?
- Has your career been a significant aspect of your identity?
- Will it be possible for you to return to your career after several years away?
- Can you build your career from a home office?
- Are there educational opportunities for you during your child-rearing years?
- Does it make sense to stay in touch with your employer?
- Is there a chance that you can work for your employer from home?